Today I'm going to write the people around the world have their own different lifestyles. Of course you might know that every people have their own different lifestyles. What I actually want to say that we need to try to fell other's people how would they live in a poor life. My friend invite me to participate Tzu Chi ( 慈济 ) last Sunday morning to visit some of 苦命人( OKU, people who live very tough in their life or got some disease that can't be cure ) in their house. That time I woke up early in the morning and felt sleepy.
Situation 1:-
When I was there I saw one of the guy who actually got AIDS and use the stick to move around. He can't talk and he is just 20+ or 30+ years old but I can see that he still being strong to help his mother "拔豆豆" ( I don't know how to describe lololol ). What I know is the Tzu Chi member sponsor a LCD TV to them ( Or maybe just sponsor the other half price of the TV? ). After the TV came, he fell very happy. Partly he enjoys the TV show, and partly he "拔豆豆". 在他们眼中，小小的祝福，小小的帮助，就是他们一辈子的幸福。
Sitting in front the laptop or mobile of you, you have healthy 2 hands and 2 legs to do other things. Stop complaining that "Why my life is tough. Oh I'm so lazy. I going to xxx!" ! (include myself. But try to think of it ! If you think your life sucks, how about others ?? They can't even walk probably and do want the others people can do. Especially for those who have very very negative thinking until going to suicide. Use your own hands to help other people or help our country to do something benefits to them.
Situation 2:-
Other story I would like to highlight is one of the parents were very poor. They had one daughter who had been going to university in KL. What I heard the parents said she was very well-behaved person since in primary school and secondary school. After went in university, their daughter was changed a lot. She was very stress. She yelled to their parents and wreak to them, punish them. That was very very terrible that I've heard. She got no friends at there. Her parents keep complain the social's fault. Social influence their daughter to become very cruel. Lecturer torture her. Her friends talk behind her and Tec. The rate of her hate was too over. She's very negative thinking now. Also she very very hate Tzu Chi. Once she know the Tzu Chi help their parents to gain their lifestyles. She started to scold their parents. "Why you call them for help? They just a lier! Bla Bla Bla..".
When you read this situation, are you this kind of people? Of not, I would like to congratulate you're not a part of that girl. In social life, sometimes it's very reality. We need to think of it, sometimes the world not so dark. There still have the bright side in this world. The social makes us become strong and independently.
We failed, we try again.
We lost, we start over.
We get "shoot", we choose to ignore or listen their opinion correct or not.
We lost our relationship, stay strong or blessing them.
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In conclusion, it's very important that how we use our brain to think in positive way. People said: "世界上有黑就会有白，只要懂得善用你的头脑，你就会发现世界原来是那么光彩。"
For me, sometimes I'm very lazy to read those article in Facebook or magazine. It's a good way try to visit poor people and help them. You may found somethings different.
For me, sometimes I'm very lazy to read those article in Facebook or magazine. It's a good way try to visit poor people and help them. You may found somethings different.
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